Writing inspired by the SWC creative writing prompt: Who was your first kiss? How was your first kiss?
First Kiss
By Tamara Raidt
I didn’t like my first kiss:
this is the first thing I reminisce.
Strange how the intention (or here,
the non-intention), is stronger than
the kiss itself, than the taste,
than the impression, I guess
I wanted to impress him.
It was a best friend’s best friend
and we had met in this bigger city
where everything was closed
and the words that came
out of my mouth left so many
thoughts undisclosed.
Two small universes
walking side by side
not needing each other,
maybe wanting each other
not colliding, just coming
closer out of curiosity,
out of happenstance,
because I learned
that one universe
cannot subsist
if it does not gravitate
around
something bigger.
I didn’t like my first kiss
but now that I think back
I didn’t want that first kiss
but who was I, at fifteen,
to say no?
Had I been told so?
No I’ve been told to
get married, but not
with the first comer,
I’ve been told not
to worry, there were
still things to discover.
I didn’t know it takes
years to polish a no,
to blunt its edges, to refine it
so that the “no” wouldn’t
be returned to me
like an unread letter;
back then I didn’t know better.
It takes even more years
to put enough strength
in a no, enough self-confidence
to let it go alone to its addressee,
not to care anymore if
it has been received;
it takes year to create a no
that is able to stand alone
on both its feet,
without the support
of a “sorry”
or a “because” –
oh it has so much more power
than an apology does,
but that no one would
ever say
to me.
I guess it is too
frightening
when a universe
starts to
exist per se.
Loved that Tamara, I didn’t like my first kiss either!